The narcissist survives by confusing and perplexing all around him or her. The narcissist operates in a different reality where what he or she says will means something entirely different to what you perceive. This results in argument, pain and a lack of understanding, with victims unable to comprehend why the narcissist behaves in this manner. Now you can understand what the narcissist is really saying to you with a whole host of familiar comments and phrases used by narcissists. Realise that is meant when a narcissist claims to be your soul mate, what does he or she mean when they declare they need to be alone for a while and what does "just a friend" actually involve? An enlightening and mesmerising insight into what the narcissist really means.