You're at the restaurant with your girlfriend, wearing Pull-Ups, as is your new reality.
You just came out of the bathroom, ready to admit that you weren't able to make it to the potty on time and had and accident in your training panties... again.
Your girlfriend doesn't seem surprised though. As a matter of fact, she can tell right away that your Pull-ups are drenched.
She teases you. Makes fun of your inability to hold it.
Now she's suggesting that you shouldn't even wear those anymore. If you're not ready for potty training, why even try, right?