So, What's Your Proposal?: Shifting High-Conflict People from

So, What's Your Proposal?: Shifting High-Conflict People from Blaming to Problem-Solving in 30 Seconds

Blame abounds! People confront us at work, the store, and online. Nerves get on edge. We get stuck blaming others for anything that goes wrong. With high-conflict people increasing in society, the twenty-four-hour news cycle, and social media, we hear constantly about the worst behavior. The temptation is to react and blame.

Instead, consider using the simple methods taught in this book for getting them out of the past and away from blaming everyone else. Get them to quickly focus on the future, take responsibility, and contribute to finding solutions to problemsâ€”including those they created themselves.

When people complain and blame you, you donâ€˜t need to defend yourself or respond with anger. Just calmly say: â€•So, whatâ€˜s your proposal?â€– and focus on teaching the simple three-step method explained in this book. This method will help you stay calm and confident, while earning the respect of those around youâ€”even those who want to blame you!

And blame is abundant these days! Every day dozensâ€”if not hundredsâ€”of people confront us at work, at the store, in our communities, and online. Nerves get on edge. Look around; more and more people seem to blame others for anything that goes wrong in their lives. With high-conflict people increasing in society, with the 24-hour news cycle, and with Twitter, Facebook, and the Internet, we are constantly barraged with stories about the worst behavior of people and a plethora of terrible incidents every day. The strong temptation is to react and deflect blame back on them. However, this just feeds the problem.

This book lays out a simple, proven method to shift the conversation from the past and blame, to the future and problem solving. The method is extremely effective; we have seen it work over and over againâ€”many times in just 30 seconds. Whatâ€˜s more, almost anyone can use itâ€”it just takes practice, and this book offer lots of examples to help you get started.
Country USA
Manufacturer High Conflict Institute Press
Binding Kindle Edition
ReleaseDate 2014-09-02
Format Kindle eBook

Country	USA
Manufacturer	High Conflict Institute Press
Binding	Kindle Edition
ReleaseDate	2014-09-02
Format	Kindle eBook

So, What's Your Proposal?: Shifting High-Conflict People from Blaming to Problem-Solving in 30 Seconds

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