In a refreshing antidote to the burgeoning cult of the victim, the bestselling author of Worlds of Pain "and Intimate Strangers" offers inspiring tales of people who have managed to triumph over harsh and painful pasts."No one listens and makes the rest of the world hear like Lillian Rubin."--Michael Rogin, University of California, Berkeley"Offers valuable insights for any who are struggling with interpersonal dilemmas as well as those who seek to help them."--Marianne Walters, Director, Family Therapy Practice Center of Washington, DC