When People are Big and God is Small

When People are Big and God is Small

However you put it, the fear of man can be summarized this way: We replace God with people. Instead of a biblically guided fear of the Lord, we fear others.
Of course, the â€œfear of manâ€ goes by other names. When we are in our teens, it is called â€œpeer pressure.â€ When we are older, it is called â€œpeople-pleasing.â€ Recently, it has been called â€œcodependency.â€ With these labels in mind, we can spot the fear of man everywhere. Diagnosis is fairly straightforward.

- Have you ever struggled with peer pressure? â€œPeer pressureâ€ is simply a euphemism for the fear of man.
- Are you over-committed? Do you find that it is hard to say no even when wisdom indicates that you should? Are you are a â€œpeople-pleaser,â€ another euphemism for the fear of man ?
- Do you â€œneedâ€ something from your spouse? Do you â€œneedâ€ your spouse to listen to you? Respect you? Think carefully here. Certainly God is pleased when there is good communication and a mutual honor between spouses. But for many people, the desire for these things has roots in something that is far from Godâ€™s design for his image-bearers. Unless you understand the biblical parameters of marital commitment, your spouse will become the one you fear. Your spouse will control you. Your spouse will quietly take the place of God in your life.
- Is self-esteem a critical concern for you? This, at least in the United States, is the most popular way that the fear of other people is expressed. If self-esteem is a recurring theme for you, chances are that your life revolves around what others think. You reverence or fear their opinions. You need them to buttress your sense of well-being and identity. You need them to fill you up.
- Do you ever feel as if you might be exposed as an impostor? Many business executives and apparently successful people do. The sense of being exposed is an expression of the fear of man. It means that the opinions of other people â€” especially their possible opinion that you are a failure â€” are able to control you.
- Are you always second-guessing decisions because of what other people might think? Are you afraid of making mistakes that will make you look bad in other peopleâ€™s eyes?
- Do you feel empty or meaningless? Do you experience â€œlove hungerâ€? Here again, if you need others to fill you, you are controlled by them.
- Do you get easily embarrassed? If so, people and their perceived opinions probably define you. Or, to use biblical language, you exalt the opinions of others to the point where you are ruled by them.

THE problem is clear: People are too big in our lives and God is too small. The answer is straightforward: We must learn to know that our God is more loving and more powerful than we ever imagined. Yet this task is not easy. Even if we worked at the most spectacular of national parks, or the bush in our backyard started burning without being consumed, or Jesus appeared and wrestled a few rounds with us, we would not be guaranteed a persistent reverence of God. Too often our mountain-top experiences are quickly overtaken by the clamor of the world, and God once again is diminished in our minds. The goal is to establish a daily tradition of growing in the knowledge of God.
Country USA
Manufacturer New Growth Press
Binding Kindle Edition
ReleaseDate 2012-01-30
Format Kindle eBook

Country	USA
Manufacturer	New Growth Press
Binding	Kindle Edition
ReleaseDate	2012-01-30
Format	Kindle eBook

When People are Big and God is Small

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