She met her rapper husband, DMX at age 11. They began dating when she turned 18; he was also living in Yonkers at that time. Simmons is estranged and legally separated from her on and off again husband Earl Simmons, better known by his stage name 'DMX'. She resides in Mt. Kisco, New York with their four children; Xavier, Tacoma, Sean, and Praise Mary Ella. The world only knows his side of the story and what they see in the media. Here is your chance to hear her account of what happened and how she continues to strive for success, despite living her life on a platform for the world to see. This book will detail the good, the bad, and the ugly of the life of Tashera Simmons and DMX, and their lives together. She does not like it to be referred to as a tell-all; because she thinks that alludes to it snitching on intimate details of his life. What it will expound on is how despite adversities and turmoil, she is able to still have a positive outlook on life and appreciate all the things that have come her way. If you want to read a book about walking by faith, You Think You Know, but You Have No Idea , is a must read page turner. It gives you a detail experience of Tashera s life, and also inspires others to continue to have hope through the adversities they face in their own lives.